Good morning FitFeat friends!
I’m feeling ready to hit the reset button and get back to my regular routine. Between hosting houseguests and then getting snowed in, I feel like it’s been 2 weeks since I’ve had a routine day. Vacation is over. Back to reality! 
MSP and I did get out yesterday for a great 5 mile interval session. Intervals of any sort are my favorite, which is why I love to hike. Hiking to me is basically one big interval session. Higher intensity on the uphill portion, recovery on the downhill. We did something similar on our run yesterday, as where we live is pretty hilly. We speedwalked the uphills and raced on the downhills. It was so fun and the miles flew by in a hurry.
The sun was shining and the sky was clear blue. A big thanks to our Recreation Association for taking a snowplow to the trail system, because they were in great shape despite all the snow that fell.
I fueled up about an hour prior to the run with a Larabar Coconut Cream Pie.
And a post-run green smoothie (that I almost forgot to photograph, so it’s almost gone).
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On to a new FitFeature topic that I’ve been wanting to cover for some time: using naysayers to propel you to success.
Through the years, I have tried many different nutrition plans and fitness routines as I enjoy experimenting to determine what works best for me.
When you are eating healthy and exercising, chances are you are going to bump into people who want to rain on your parade. I could do a whole series on the reasons WHY and HOW people will do this to you, but for today I’d like to focus on YOU turning naysaying into motivation.
Many years back, before I became a personal trainer and while I was still new in my fitness journey I was working as a consultant and had been assigned to a project with a fairly large company. Over time, people got used to the fact that I packed my own food and ate healthy most of the time.
I had a 3-ring binder in which I kept my food and exercise logs. On the cover of the binder was an “Avia” fitness ad I’d torn out of a magazine as motivation.
One of the women that worked in the department I’d been assigned to saw my motivation photo and actually told me that I could “never look like that”.
Now I am sure she didn’t mean it maliciously. I like to think she was implying that she figured only a select genetically gifted few looked that way and that I’d only be wasting my time or setting myself up for failure.
Ten years later, I STILL remember that comment. And boy did I prove her wrong. Not that she knows it – my contract there ended and I moved on to the next consulting gig and then ultimately became a full-time personal trainer. But just knowing that I reached my goal and THEN SOME, gives me satisfaction that she could not diminish my excitement or drive with her negativity.
In fact she PROPELLED me further.
I am one who responds when you tell me I can’t do something. When you tell me I CAN’T do something, I will move mountains to show you I just how well I CAN.
When I first embarked on my journey to better fitness I looked like this (~150 lbs, 5’4″) – geez I look unhappy don’t I?
After a couple of rounds of “Body for Life” I’d improved to this (this is where I was when I was working the consulting job) – cheesy pose due to entering the BFL contest
This is the ad I’d referred to for motivation:
And then at my first NPC figure competition:
Now I won’t kid you – getting ready for figure competitions was no easy feat. I worked my tail off and I endured ridiculously strict diets for each one. But it was something that I chose to experience. I’d moved on from my AVIA model and soon her pic was replaced with that of NPC and IFBB figure competitors.
What I want you to take away from this is:
Never let naysayers talk you down from your goals. Use it as fuel for your motivational fire. You CAN accomplish what you want when you put your mind to it and really dial-in your focus.
Don’t let it hurt when people say you can’t do something, or shouldn’t do something. And when it comes from people close to you, I know it can sting even more. Often times, people just don’t quite grasp what you are aiming for and that’s OK. Let it get under your skin to ENCOURAGE you, rather than allowing it to cause doubt.
Here is the body “I live in daily” now, eating foods I ENJOY and doing exercise that I look forward to (and obviously in dire need of a tan, but hey it’s November!)
So today I would like to say thank youto all the naysayers out there who help propel THE REST OF US to kick a$$, take names and show ‘em how we roll.
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Today’s discussion: Have you experienced people attempting to rain on your parade or make you feel that you can’t achieve a certain goal? Get picked on for eating healthy? (That’s a big one for me.) Please drop a comment and share your experiences with us.
Make it a great Monday friends, and a great week as well!
See you next time!
– Shari B. =)
If you know someone embarking on their own fitness journey (or could use some help battling the naysayers!) please feel free to send them my way. I offer fitness consulting by phone nationwide and in-person in the South Denver area.
) — what I really want you to take away from this is that it’s not so difficult to make a separate meal if you are following a nutrition plan different from the rest of your family. A big obstacle for many personal training clients when they are trying to eat healthier and/or lose some weight is that sometimes the rest of the family just isn’t on board with the new eating habits. While it’s GREAT to continue to encourage the family to eat healthier, be sure it doesn’t become the reason not to follow through with your own nutrition or physique goals. 
